We seem to have largely agreed that making fun of people of colour is bad, but that obviously doesn’t extend to everyone.
Growing up in Canada with parents and grandparents who were never too in touch with their heritage either, I don’t really have any culture other than Canadian.
However, the fact that online is increasingly becoming the only option in many famously-multiplayer games is very frustrating.
However we go about it, organization is integral to managing life and adulting in general.
You should take some time for yourself, and whatever makes you the happiest.