Itchinā STI available for short- or long-term relationship
By Andrea Arscott, Columnist
Iād love to get in your bum. Iām a sexually transmitted infection (STI), and Iām passionate about anal sex without a condom. If itās not my lucky day, Iāll gladly take a trip into your vagina, penis, or mouth instead. When Iām done, you may not even know that Iāve left my mark. If youāre one of the fortunate ones, Iāll leave a trace of painless sores in or on your body, and if youāre extra-lucky, Iāll brand you with a surprise rash anywhere I desire.
This is how I roll: I spread my sores or rashes to your partners when they touch me. Call me a pervert, but I survive through skin-slapping activities. My name is syphilis, and itās a pleasure to meet you. If you donāt treat me with a doctorās visit, youāll be sick over me. I might even break your heart, get in your head, and kill you.
Youāve probably guessed that I have a fetish for gay and bisexual men. I canāt resist them. According to the BC Centre for Disease Control (BCCDC) my rates are the āhighest in decades.ā It also claims that in 2013, I, syphilis, created 561 new cases in BC. Iām nowhere near done infecting people, either. I canāt wait for the next opportunity to get in your pants.
If Iām not your flavour of the month, Iāll be happy to introduce you to my friend, gonorrhea. Gonorrhea, like me, can also invade your body without you knowing it. We love getting around this way because you have no idea youāre passing us on to your partners. You believe youāre healthy because you donāt have symptoms, so you donāt bother to get tested. STIs like us take full advantage of uninformed people like you who donāt know how we spread ourselves to others. Watch out, here we come!
Gonorrhea not only likes the rectum, the penis, and the cervix, but will also take a liking to your throat and eyes. The Public Health Agency of Canada puts out a little booklet about STIs (if youāre smart, youāll pick one up at the Purpose Society). It warns that if youāre female, gonorrhea will cause a change or increase in your vaginal discharge, bleeding when you donāt have your period, bleeding during or after sex, pain in your lower abdomen, and pain when urinating. If youāre male, you can look forward to burning when you pee, a thick greenish-yellow discharge from your penis, burning or itching around your pee hole, and pain in your testicles.
If you come into contact with gonorrhea, good people will advise you to get to a clinic or doctor for treatment, but not me. I like it when we get nasty. The good doctor will likely examine your genitalia, swab the infected areas, and ask for a urine sample. That STI booklet I mentioned before says, āA lot of people who have gonorrhea also have the STI called chlamydia.ā These two are like an STI match made in heaven with double the power to cause you pain and discomfort.
Like me, chlamydia can also have serious health issues if left untreated. Symptoms are similar to mine and gonorrheaās, but chlamydia also likes to tickle your vagina, which naturally makes you itch. And if youāre a man, in addition to the havoc my friends and I inflict on your body, chlamydia also causes a watery or milky discharge to secrete from your penis.
And donāt forgetāif one of us has gotten our hands on you, it will be easier for HIV to get into your body and take advantage of you too. We basically create a path for HIV to follow and enter your blood stream.
If you want to avoid entering a relationship with any and all of us, get tested and wear a condom.
Come down to the Purpose Society testing clinic at 40 Begbie Street in New West the first and third Friday of the month from 11 a.m. to 1 p.m. for anonymous and rapid HIV testing, and STI and HCV testing. We also provide vaccines, free harm reduction supplies, and condoms! You can also get your questions answered by emailing sexyquestions@purposesociety.org
