Consider those around you
By Glauce Fleury, Contributor
When you decide to go to the library or to one of the computer labs at Douglas College, whatās your main purpose? This is a question Iād like to ask every student in this institution, if I were doing research on the usage of those spaces. As Iām not a researcher, Iāll leave this question here so that those of you who read this piece can think about it.
Iāll probably never know what your responses would be, but Iām going to tell you mine. I use the library to study, or to go to one of the hopefully empty computer labs. To me, thereās no benefit to using the upper floor of the New Westminster libraryāa quiet space where no talking is permittedāsimply because I need a computer.
I know the library is also used by study groups, and study groups need to talk. However, most of the time when Iām at the library I see people getting together, laughing out loud, and talking about a variety of subjects. Trust me when I say these subjects have nothing to do with the college. Even when two people are working together on a computerāand I know they need to talkācanāt they use a lower tone of voice?
āThe main floor of each library does tend to be more noisy than a strictly quiet study area,ā says Debbie Schachter, Learning Resources Director, the department that comprises the Library and the Learning Centre. āThis is acceptable provided the noise does not become excessive, but we do request that students be respectful of others and keep noise down when talking or studying in groups.ā
Then how to know these limits? Behaving as we expect others to behave; that is, putting ourselves in othersā shoes. I donāt believe these students like noise when they are studying, so they should provide some silence for their peers.
One evening, I decided to look for a computer in one of the labs because I needed to finish an assignment. When I arrived there around 8 p.m., it was empty. I was glad, as I needed to write a critical analysis for one of my courses and it required a lot of thinking. Some minutes later, a student came in, talking on his cell phone as if he was the only creature on earth. He turned on a computer and started watching videos on YouTube. His voice got louder, and he never hung up, so I left. What he was doing there if he didnāt want to study isnāt my business, but his behavior interrupted my study.
Something very similar also happened to me at the start of the year. I was in the smaller room on the main level of the library when a guy sat next to me. He was watching videos and suddenly started to singāloudly.
I believe itās really important to socialize because lifeās not just about studying. I really love to spend time with my friends and when I meet them by chance in one of the study places, I talk to them quickly, arrange some talk for later, and move on. Am I unreasonable?