By Elliot Chan, Opinions Editor
Now and then, I step away from my science fiction, contemporary dramas, and classic coming-of-age novels to enjoy something more factual. Non-fiction books allow me to touch base with the world Iâm living in through historical texts, biographies, memoirs, and self-helps. I choose these readings of my own accord; they are not textbooks or instruction manualsâbut they can sometimes feel like something assigned by an instructor. Non-fictions are never really the sweets for me, theyâre the vegetables, and the nutrients I know I need more of. But, which do I relish in, and which do I spit in disgust?
Pass: Memoirs
Only recently did I start reading memoirs. I used to think the ramblings of a famous actor, politician, athlete, or public figure werenât worth my time. I would rather spend an afternoon reading about wizards or revisiting my homework than reading about someone elseâs success. Hell, if I wanted to know more about the person, I would read their Wikipedia page, right?
Not that Iâm wrong, but memoirs offer a subjective lens into the personâs life that is otherwise lost in a biography, or Wikipedia page. Reading the words of someone not known for their writing ability is quite an evocative experience; itâs as if you are hearing their story through their own lips. You can see the way they colour an aspect of their life, while hiding details in another. You can feel what matters to the person in that moment, what they wanted to communicate about themselves to the public. And if the memoir is done well, it can definitely inspire.
We all possess the power of choice, and whether we like the memoirists in the real world or not is up to us. The magic of a memoir is that, even if we dislike the person, we can see through their eyes for a moment and recognize the struggle they went through to achieve what they have. A good memoir highlights the failures along with the successes, and proves to the reader that what theyâve done might not be achievable for everyone, but it was for themâafter all, they lived to tell the tale.
Fail: Self-helps
Iâm having trouble buying into the billion-dollar industry of self-help books. Iâve read many in my life thinking that it was the solution to my problems. I believe many other people pick them up for that same reason. Whether youâre trying to live in the moment or explore a diet, reading a book is not going to help you do it. Self-help books are temporary distractions by design. They might provide guidelines for achieving goals, but they do little to convince you youâre doing it right or that your efforts are working. The books donât even get you to put in effort at allâtheir motivational power is limited.
You cannot read a manual on fixing computers and instantly become an expert. Your brain simply canât retain all that information; same goes with self-help books. You cannot read a book and ask if you are happy, or if youâre fit, or if you should have children, and find the answer. Self-help books are someone elseâs ideals and reality presented to you in the form of a productâyouâre just buying it first and then being convinced after. You wouldnât join a cult just because it tells you that it can make you happy, right?
There is a lot of value in self-help books, but itâs the presentation that ruins it. Success is not a chapter-by-chapter thing; itâs more of a choose-your-own-adventure and learn-from-your-mistakes kind of thingâand that is what self-help books are not.